Hi there!   

Talking to your kids about the big stuff (you know, puberty, crushes, and all the weird changes) can feel like a total minefield. 

You don’t want to overwhelm them, but you also don’t want to make it so awkward that they’re looking for the nearest exit. And trust me, I get it. 

Hi, I’m Lakshmi—your neighborhood laid-back parent. Today, we’re breaking down how to handle these tricky conversations without making them awkward for your kids (or for you) 

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Puberty? Crushes? Help!! 

Every parent dreads these conversations, but here’s the thing: your kids are already seeing it happen around them. From puberty to relationships, these topics are unavoidable.

But what YOU need to know as a parent is: 

Every kid matures at different rates. Some kids in fifth grade have boyfriends and girlfriends, while others think it’s gross. You’ve got to know where your child stands before bringing it up. 

So, take a step back and gauge their world—don’t rush in without knowing where they’re at!

Friendship Drama, Already…

I tell my boys they’re leaders. If they see someone being left out or bullied, they need to step up. 

Don’t join the group leaving someone out—include them. You might be their only friend.

These conversations aren’t just about puberty or friendships. They’re a chance to teach kids how to navigate life, treat others kindly, and grow into strong, empathetic leaders. 

What to do when your teen experiences friendship drama? 

Skip the Awkward Sit-down 😣

Nobody wants to hear, “Hey, let’s talk about puberty!” Instead, keep it casual and light.

We never have big sit-down conversations. Instead, we bring it up when it makes sense. For example, if my son is acting up, we’ll joke, ‘Is this you or puberty hormones?’ It gets a laugh and makes the topic less heavy. 

Humor goes a long way in keeping the lines of communication open.

Here’s a pro tip: micro-conversations > marathon lectures.

Don’t turn it into a 30-minute ordeal. Talk about one little thing for five minutes, then move on. The next topic can be another five-minute chat next week. That way, it feels normal and not overwhelming.

Is There a “Right Time”? YES! 

When? When they’re already experiencing it.

For example, when I have cramps, I’ll tell my boys, This happens every month for women. 

Or when they see something at school, we’ll talk about it then. These natural moments make it easier for them to absorb and ask questions. 

Be patient, and don’t bombard them with the information they didn’t ask you. Period. 

What If They Won’t Talk?

Sometimes they’re not ready, and that’s okay. Don’t push it. 

If they refuse to engage, step back. Find another moment, like when you see they topic during a movie or when you can joke about it. 

You don’t have to force the conversation—it’ll happen when the time is right.

35 teen conversation starters to open up communication with your teenager. 

That’s all for today’s issue, parents! 🩷

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Note for My Fellow Laid-Back Parents 📧

One chill conversation is all it takes, no seriously! You don’t need to plan a TED Talk on puberty or rehearse a speech about crushes. Keep it light, keep it casual, and trust me, your kids will feel way more comfortable.

The key? Timing and tone. Slip these chats into everyday moments—like during a car ride or while bingeing their favorite show. 

No pressure, no lectures, just you being the cool, approachable parent they actually want to talk to. 

Catch you next time, 

Lakshmi (Chief of Chill Parenting)